1. An increased tendency to let thing happen rather than thinking you are making things happen

2. Frequent attacks of inner and outer smiling

3. Feelings of being connected with others and the natural world

4. Frequent overwhelming moments of gratitude

5. A tendency to think and act spontaneously rather than from fears and old wounds based on past experience

6. An unmistakable feeling of wonder and  the ability to enjoy each moment

7. A loss of interest in worrying

8. A loss of interest in conflict

9. A loss of interest in interpreting the actions of others

10. A loss of interest in judging self and others

11. Expanding the capacity to love and to give without expecting anything in return

12. An increasing awareness of the goodness in others

13. Practicing Rule 62 more often [“don’t take yourself too damn seriously”]

14. Awareness of the truth of impermanence

15. Awareness that we are each equal-despite any feelings you might have to the contrary

16. The increasing ability to be kind and respectful with your words or be quiet until you get there. Yes, all the time

17. Expecting Nothing. Blaming No one. Doing Something.